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So I've moved on from Deviant art so want to sell a lot of my characters to people who will use them!

Heres a link to all the open character sta.sh/21lxndiovg5l?edit=1

Offer in the comments for any of them with the amount. 

Taking PayPal only thanks

xx

So update on my life. It's not been great I can't really talk about my mental health until it's confirmed. I've been feeling pretty lonely as of late especially seeing as I'm moving schools. I don't know if anyone on here really cares but it would be great to talk to people about this stuff. I hope you're all having a good day and bye.

1. How do you self-identify your gender, and what does that definition mean to you?
I'm a transgender guy and that's it. I used to think I was bigender and to start with I thought I was a boy and a girl. Then a boy and non-binary but now I know I'm just a boy and I plan to transition as soon as possible. 

2. What pronouns honor you?
He/Him/His are the only ones I use now as I said I used to use they/them as well but now I'm just not ok with that being used for me.

3. Describe the style of clothing that you most often wear.
Hoodies, Jeans and a T-shirt that's basically all I wear now and all of the clothes I own now are male or unisex.


4. Talk about your choices with body hair. How do you style your hair?

I don't shave my legs or arms seeing as I'm trying to look as male as possible and be true to myself. As for hair, I have very short hair which I use a little bit of product in when I'm going out or can be bothered to.

5. Do you have facial hair? What do you choose to shave, or choose not to shave?
Seeing as my body is female I do not have any and even when I transition I'm not going to keep any seeing as I just don't like it to be honest.

6. Talk about cosmetics. Do you choose to wear makeup? Do you paint your nails? What types of soaps and perfumes do you use if any?
I do not wear any makeup and I've never really liked how it looks on me. I've had some on in the past and it never felt right for me, I've just never really connected with it. But saying that if my skin breaks out or anything like that a lot I will wear foundation and concealer to cover it up and help it a bit.

7. Have you experienced being misgendered? If so, how often? Do you experience dysphoria? How does that affect you?
Yes, I get misgendered every day, by family, family friends and if I'm in school then people there. even though I have told my family, like many others they think it's a phase and that they should not feed into it. Of late I've been experiencing dysphoria every day, in fact, while writing this I'm feeling dysphoric. 

8. Talk about children. Are you interested in having children? Would you want to carry a child if that were an option for you? Do you want to be the primary caretaker for any children you may have?
I would not want to carry a child seeing as it would cause very bad dysphoria and I don't know if I could live through something like that. But I have always wanted a child or two later in life when I'm married and happy with someone, in a good position where the child/children could grow up happy and safe. 

9. Talk about money. Is it important to you to provide for a family financially if you choose to have one? Is it important to you that you earn more than any partner you may have? Do you prefer to pay for things like dates? Are you uncomfortable when others pay for you or offer to pay for you?
It think this question very much depends on when everything that happens in my life happens and in what order. If I was to go on a date with someone I would want to pay for my meal (or whatever we went/brought to). The rest really depends on what is happening in each of our lives at the time.

10. Anything else you want to share about your experience with gender?
I do believe you need gender dysphoria to be transgender seeing as I don't see why anyone would want to be trans. If I could be cis I would basically give up everything. But apart from that be true to yourself. 

Sorry if something is spelt wrong I'm too lazy to fix it, thank you for reading.